Clubs, Pubs, Bars...........why everyone is into it?

There was one day i was being questioned on why i reject all invitations to such places. They asked whether is the environment or the people that make me reject all of those invitations.
Do I have the curiousity? The experience? The Questions that i wanted to find the answers to it?

First of all.......i dont have the curiousity! Going there is really meaningless for me. Experience? I will have them at anytime. That places are for people from young to old. NO age limits.
Are all these places for people to relax, release their stress & tension after working or a certain job that makes them headache, to know more people to expand their network, flirting?, know bf & gf?...............i'm not sure.

There was one day i went to a club with my friends but i didnt drink. I sat & looked at the atmosphere, the people & the environment of the place. I was wondering what attracts them there. The curiousity? The people? The drinks? The place?
I sat there......looking at people drinking liquors like drinking water.......dont know when to stop & drink till they drunk. MOST disgusting is they will drink till they vomit, making the whole place are smelly & disgusting to be at. Some even vomit at your clothing or your shoes.......
That's disgusting! Why do they need to drink till they are drunk? Is it fun to be drunk? To drink until they are broke? I really dont understand why people dont treasure themselves when they can/could.

Especially for ladies, drinking too many liqours are bad for health. I'm sure most of you know about it but why still you dont know your limits when you're there? Keep drinking & worst of all smoke! It's really not pleasant to see girls smoking as we are consider the most gentle & beautiful ceatures that lure the man into our hands........=p
Another thing which i hate to go there is the smoke from 2nd hands......i'm sure everyone knows how dangerous it is to inhale those smoke. But why you still want to be there? To follow the trend? To be the most outstanding person there? To be the most popular person within your group? I really dont understand those people. Most important, I HATE SMOKERS! Sorry......no offense but that's my principle in life.

What's with the dancing? Letting people touch your body everywhere. Molest you when you are drunk. Take advantage on you when you dont realize. Dancing is actually a healthy exercise but it was often being misunderstood by our parents as a dirty activities. I know that most parents wouldnt like their children to go to such places as they classified these places as a dirty, unsafe & violent place to be at. Do you have your dignity? Do you care for your virginity? Then why do things that would embarass yourself & your family? We always hear people saying about youngster getting married early because of pregnancy. So is this the cause of it? YOU judge....

I dont want to get myself into trouble at this age where i'm looking for my future & career. Getting married is not an obstacle but children do. Think of the $$$. Think of their lifestyle. Think of the family as a whole. Have you thought of these? Saying is easy but making it happen it's difficult. AM I RIGHT? I do not want my parents to regret making me into this world. Family are the first in my life. No matter i have a family of my own or not. they are still the best. Think ahead. Who brought you into this world? What if your husband suddenly tells you he wants to divorce you? What if your family would not accept you as a member for all your embarassment & disgraceful acts? Where can you go? Stay in the streets? You can? Think back........from young you are being pampered by your parents, eat & sleep & stay in a nice comfy place, enjoying all the luxuries in life........suddenly everything is gone! What is your next step? YOU think about it.......

I always like to plan things ahead as i know things wont happen in a perfect, smooth way. Planning is to take precautions & rejections before the thing happened. At least we will have another option. Life is enjoyable with options. Life is meaningful with options. So, is option important in your life? You know best.........

Going to these places is good in knowing more people but are those people worthy to be your friends? Your business partners? Your "income" / "sales"? Your life partners? I know to my parents......those people are juz playing a fool a with you or juz flirting around with you. No one is good there. Even though my parents didnt say much but i know with their gestures & emotions, they dont like their children to regret one day for being careless & disgraceful. To me, my parents & family are the one & only one. Bf or gf could be there anytime for you depending on whether you want them or not. It's all fated. Hubby? They may leave you one day if they found another one better. Life could be that evil, bad & disgusting. But what can we do? This is all given by our parents to come into this world.

Have you ever treasure your parents when they are still alive, still in this world? Have you ever be a fillial child? Have you gave back all their investment that they made to you? You can never repay them till the end as their investment is never ending. You may not realize it but when you are a mom or dad, you will experience the same thing as what your parents have went through. So why not do something for them when you can or could? Think back on what have you done to make them happy & satisfied with your doings? To our parents, we are always a child to them.

Dear all, treasure your parents when you can/could. Dont regret till the end & dont cry over a split milk. It's useless............

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Sorry for all the delays as exam is coming soon......have to study to keep up with what i have missed long time ago.......where you guys have gone through few years back....
Hopefully i will be able to graduate ASAP without any failure in any papers

Thanks for the support